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Melina

You just found out the person you’ve had a serious relationship with cheated on you... what would you do?! #dating #cheaters

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Melina• 409d

Okay, picture this. This is a hypothetical situation. You just found out the person you've had a serious relationship with cheated on you. What would you do? For me, I'm very confrontational, but I would make sure I had all the evidence and I would be the type of person to print it all and just leave it in their possession and just walk out. I've seen what I needed to see and I'm over it.

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Darrell• 404d

I'm gay, so we's growing the fuck up, then I'm breaking up with you. could spoke that.

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Melina• 395d

Exactly. That's why I keep telling people that you gotta do what's best for you, and even though I can't really tell others what to say or do, this is the right answer to me, breaking up with them. There's no reason to stay.

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Borderhopper• 404d

So first I'm gonna get with the person that you know me with second I'm gonna spread things about the person and make their life miserable and third I'm a kill them

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Melina• 395d

You know what? It's so interesting that you mentioned getting with the person that they cheated on you with because I hear about that all the time or with a family member or a friend, like someone close in their circle. I'm not encouraging it, I'm just saying I've heard it a lot.

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Wooj• 404d

I'm mad I'm pissed straight up I mean it's it is what it is but not gonna go in there acting crazy I'm just gonna be like a real life slap the fuck out of both you and I'm not in there

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Melina• 395d

Yeah, I would also be angry. You know, yeah, silence is golden, don't get me wrong, but I would just be fuming on the inside and just be so, like, furious that something like that happened under my nose and I didn't know it.

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Blinera• 403d

I've been there, I had all the evidence and I just left him actually. I don't think you should lose your time confronting him.

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Melina• 402d

Oh wow, I am so sorry that happened to you. I was just using a hypothetical situation. This actually did not happen to me, but I actually have known so many people this has happened to, which is why I brought it up for discussion.

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Melina• 402d

I do agree with you that confrontation is not needed and it's just best avoided and just to move on and I I truly hope you're okay. Like I said, I don't really know you, but I really genuinely thank you and I'm sorry that happened.

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Von• 403d

Zoomer you doing to listen music in my phone on my damn seating I'm just gonna really know where… Go goes to beach honestly I was a girl for you know Anytime

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Heaven• 403d

Like I said and another one that was so much it is Ronald for his ass be in the fuck up though his clothes out the thing increase or burn is Armada Joannes or whatever

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Melina• 395d

Oh wow, you have a lot of creative ideas on what to do. I feel like a bunch of other people are gonna listen to this and be like, okay, thanks for the inspo

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Léa• 403d

I would just leave and I wouldn't even bother collecting all this evidence like I have to justify my decision to him If he cheated then he knows that he cheated. I don't have to prove it to him I would just let him know that cheating is a deal breaker for me and I would go. Bye

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Léa• 403d

Now, if we're talking about a divorce, then of course I would have the receipts, but they're not for him.

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Melina• 402d

You are such an icon. I just want to be your friend and talk to you all day because the way all of your responses have been on all of my posts have been just top tier. I have so much respect for you.

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Katie• 402d

I think it depends on what you think Sirius is. For me Sirius is my five year relationship with my daughter. I can't just walk out if things go wrong. We've got to talk about it and work it out. Everyone makes mistakes.

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Melina• 402d

You know, I think you're the first person out of everyone to bring in a child into this conversation and I totally respect your perspective because when there is a minor involved or you know other people in general it it, you know, the decisions get a lot tougher.

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Rivet Soro• 402d

I would have no choice but to confront them. I'm not confrontational, but when it comes to cheating and stuff like that, oh, absolutely.

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Melina• 402d

Yeah, I will tell you when you find out that someone is doing you dirty like cheating or hiding something really big from you. Oh yeah, I feel like everyone gets confrontational to a certain level. That's for sure. So yeah, I'm right there with you.

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John Stulpin• 402d

I think making a plan for revenge or confrontation is the wrong way to look about it. They've proven to use something and now you take action and you make the right choices in your life. It's not about getting people back. It's about living for yourself.

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Melina• 402d

I fully agree because that's why I said I rather just print out what I found out and just leave it there and walk out because you know acceptance is peace and I you know don't want to bring in in any more negative energy.