I want you to read this again, but slowly, and there's your answer.

um it's not okay like when you all start the relationship it is definitely not okay for him to control what you're doing but if he's like worried about you like a few months like say like a few months in the relationship and he's like worried about a guy that really likes you and thinks that it's a problem then i think it is okay for a little bit but not to like control your whole life

Honestly, if you respect your man as a leader, then honestly he should tell you when something is wrong And if you respect what he says you should listen if you don't respect him, then you're not gonna listen to him But he also should be able to have a civilized conversation with you and tell you why certain people are Not good for you But this is like I'm talking about a good relationship between both Here

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It's giving insecure like that is such an ick if you don't trust your partner enough to not cheat on you So much so that you want to restrict who they talk to and who they socialize with either one of two things is going on Either you're massively insecure and you need to address that by talking to your partner Honestly or like going to therapy or some shit or your partner has shown such a history of cheating on you often to the point Where you feel defensive this way and maybe? reconsider being with them in a relationship