I had this conversation with my friends several years ago, but why do you think it's easier for some people to get into relationship? While others are having a difficult time finding a person. I'm talking about people who go on date after date after date or just hoping to meet somebody organically in like a grocery store or in a classroom or at a job, whatever. I feel like for the most part, it's of course standards, which are fine, obviously. Don't settle for less. But I find that some people actually do settle for less because they're scared to be alone and that's my take on it. But I'm not gonna knock down somebody for finding their person sooner than other people have. And if you don't have a partner, there's nothing wrong with being single either. I just want to say that as well.

I think it's more or less to do with confidence and how confident you are with trusting others and showing yourself like your true colours and stuff because you could like easily go out on a date and then like not enjoy it and then go out on another date because you have that self confidence behind you and I find that with myself like I'm not as confident as I would like to be and I usually end up like not asking that person out because I think that I'm not good enough for them. I guess that's it.

Honestly I don't find relationships that's good but I don't think it's easy to find relationships but other people out there actually have relationships but I think it's easier for other people to have a relationships cuz that's what they like we can't control what they like but why it's difficult for other people to find some is probably because they've been in abusive or toxic relationships so it's probably more harder to get into a relationship with them

Because some people go on one date and then stay with the person and the other person goes on date after date after date after date and never picks a single person because no one is good enough for them because their standards are so fucking high, they can't be satisfied.

Maybe because I know myself better and my standards are high? I don’t know. I used to accept quick relationships before vetting someone. My naivety got me plenty of people then and plenty of hurt too. Now it’s harder to find someone who’s mature and willing to take it slower with me. I know they’re out there though. Just gotta filter through all the guppies.