Single or taken I want to hear your perspective on this. When do you know it's time to end a relationship? Because I will say right off the bat for me. It's like if I dread Seeing him or don't want to be around him I know deep down inside like we're just not compatible that way and I just need to you know end things and move forward and This is not in regards to anything going on in my life personally right now It's just that I know so many people who are feeling this way and they're just not sure if you know, they're just overthinking things or you know, there really is Something that you know their mind body and soul is trying to tell them So answer this if you can
Like, when they're too close to this friend, I really understand they're close, but at the same time I don't. I try to investigate if they're like, close-close, and I literally investigate if I'm single. I've never been in a relationship, but that's the only thing that I don't like. Or when they don't have manners when they eat. Or they're not a little bit organized. And actually, you know...
And when I know that they have a job, they have a stable life, they're in school, I love that. I don't like when they're like, they don't have a job, they don't have school and they just depend on you. And then sometimes one of them boyfriends are like not good. Some of them are bad, I mean, good, because they had their experience when they were little and they didn't have like the stuff to learn stuff. And by your help, they can learn that. So.
Um, for me it would be if, yeah, just bad emotions, even thinking about like seeing them, or like if it gives you anxiety to see them, or just you don't want to spend time with them, you just, that's not your person no more. Um, yeah, basically.
Okay, I'm currently single right now because me and my ex yeah, he's my ex so I'm pretty sure you could figure out what happened there, but basically I Ended things with him because he was getting like very distant with me, and I did not like that like Okay, I get that you're not clean or whatever you don't like showing affection But you're just gonna like go hours and days without speaking it to me That was a reflect me and I would just like confronted him out
And I confronted him about it, and I was like, Hey, you haven't been acting n- Well, like your usual self lately. You've been kinda distant. You weren't, like, acting how you were before. And he was like, Oh, well, da-da-da-da-da. Been busy, da-da-da-da-da. Haven't been home, da-da-da-da-da. Brother, da-da-da-da-da. And I was just like, Oh, okay. And he was like, Yeah, I don't think I'm in the right mental state for a relationship right now. Da-da-da-da-da. And then we ended things. So, yeah.
From a single perspective, I feel like it's time to end when he's being manipulative, he just don't care about, when he don't care about your feelings anymore, like what you want instead of what he want. When he doesn't have any boundaries, like if he's always like in your personal space, like and you're telling him multiple times to stop and he doesn't, you need to end this. And there's more, but that's all I could think.