I know this is gonna get a little messy because I've already heard this conversation on another thread on a different platform And I just want to bring it here to hear your guys's perspective But would you be okay if your best friend and your partner? I'm talking about girlfriend boyfriend Wife husband, whatever being close. I'm talking about if they hang out without you or they have inside jokes or you know, whatever Whatever. Would you be okay with that? Or is that straight up disrespectful? Let me know because I would love to hear what boundaries you have in terms of your relationship with your best friend and, you know, your partner.
I don't know, I'm different. That'd be mad, disrespectful, just for the simple fact that from what I come from, like, man-or-man's business, women's business, usually, usually, not all the time, not like, not all the time, but usually, like, the only time we really run each other is when we're all around each other. And for like, my girl and my best friend to be that close?
My best friend and my girl to be that close, you already know what's going to come. Let's not pretend like there's a secret behind this shit or let's not pretend like everything is always innocent because it's not. It's more of guilty pleasure than it is innocence, 90% of the time. So if you're significant other and your best friend are that close and they're kicking it, trust and believe they're looking at each other in a certain way. They just don't let nobody else know about it.
But you know like you should give your partner the benefit of a doubt and let them handle the situation with trust. Watch how they handle that situation. Because literally I just seen this shit the other day. A dude and a girl working together and another dude macking on her and she didn't even straighten that shit like you don't see my boyfriend right here.
Alright, so I'm with somebody and whenever I'm with somebody, like, you know, I have intentions of the longevity. We're going long, baby. We're shooting for the stars and beyond. You know, so if we're long term, then of course it's going to be cool with my homies. And I want y'all to be cool, alright? As long as y'all ain't secretive. be open and communicative.