I feel like in life we have all dealt with somebody who we felt like wasn't giving us 100% of the energy we gave them and I want to ask you in that situation What do you do if a friend isn't being there for you? because I'm not gonna lie I do hold grudges and If someone is not reciprocating the energy that I was giving them and Investing time and energy into the friendship. It makes me question like okay, well do you even want this friendship? Because where are you being flaky? Like, where are you lying? Why are you doing whatever that's being so shady, you know? So in the case that happens, I just slowly start drifting away from them. And you know, I'm a confrontational person, don't get me wrong, but I feel like some things are better left unsaid. And if there was like a confrontation or a discussion being brought up, I have no problem participating, but I just don't want to actively fight for something if they're not fighting for it too. Does that make sense, but yeah, I want to hear your take.

Well, for one, you got to understand what you're dealing with. Because not everybody's going to be like you. Not everybody's going to reciprocate like you. Not everybody's going to match energy like you. So that's the first part to exceptional friendship is understanding what you're dealing with and choose whether or not you want that to be a part of your life. and have no expectations because you

Never have expectations. You know, be friends with someone and appreciate them and love them for who they are. Establish them to get that you don't have to lie. You know, but everything else, let it be what it is. Now you choose on what terms you deal with them. But never be disappointed by people because we live in

I agree with you and then I agree with the guy that is saying as well Because sometimes I'd be friends a tough way with my friends and talking to them because I know I don't We talk into the most like every single day. It's like when I'm around you. You should be honest with me But like don't be when we're not together. Don't be like talking real crap about me it's like say it to my face or don't say it at all

That's what I'm dealing with, with one of my friends right now. And they say they tell me everything, but I feel like they really don't, to be honest. Cause I get it, you have friends that does way more closer to you, but it's like, I'm here too. They ain't there for you, then I'm like, I'm here as well. um yeah I don't know

Actually the same thing have happened to me once and I have been in a situation where the situation where I had a friend and I think that she is close to me and everything but it's something happened that it's not like she doesn't even care like even if I talk to her and tell her something she doesn't know she said she doesn't give the same energy so all I do is

Oh I do is ignore her like I don't even talk about it I don't even say anything actually the people that do this will understand their mistake anyway so I just ignore and I change a little bit I'm just like yes drift away and I don't joke about everything at all as before I'm not like the same energy as before but I keep her

But I still keep her as a friend she still here if she wants me I'm still here for her but I'm still there for her but it's not the same so sometimes even it when people like find out that I'm ignoring them or something they know their mistakes and they start to fix himself like to start to be better but just like I'm not not the same anymore

I agree with what a Rubiks cube is saying there is situations where a person is genuinely not interested in a friendship or in communication and then there's situations where person just doesn't have the energy or they have things going on in their lives and I've been in both places So you have to take those into consideration and make your decision

I'm gonna cut them the hell off I'm not gonna be their friend Omar if you talk shit about me or say anything about me I'm not gay but I'm about to sit there and be your friend what is the point and even your best friend I'm still fuck you I'm still a cut you off like the fuck