We all know someone who claims that they're over their ex or, you know, says these things about this and that with their relationship, and then you come to find out that they're getting back together, and you're like, oh, okay. And so what would you say or do when you find out that type of thing happens? Because for me, I try really hard to stay in my own lane, but if I see my friend getting hurt over and over and over again, I have to speak up and let them know, hey, not only is this obviously affecting you, but how the relationship is affecting everybody else because we all can see how upset you are and just address the elephant in the room. But that's just where I stand on the issue. But yeah, I would love to hear your perspective.
Yeah just go ahead tell them they're fucking stupid but since you are a grown adult and I love you very much I'm going to let you make your own decisions and once you have breaking your heart again not him but you since you're doing this again to yourself I will still be there to help you pick up the pieces I will laugh while you go by the pieces are shattering but I'll still be there
I totally see where you're coming from and for the most part I do agree. I wouldn't exactly go as far as calling somebody stupid to their face But I feel like it's just a weird territory Because no matter what you say or do You're going to end up looking like a really unsupportive bad person Which is the opposite of what you're trying to be in a type of situation like this, right? Just such a tough call.
Darling, when you come across a situation like that, all you need to do is a very simple act. You call out the fire and then you hope that both people are able to see it. If not, you do what any sensible person would do. Pull up a chair and get yourself some marshmallows and watch it all burn.
I agree with you, especially if you're close with the person, like you definitely should speak up and let them know that they are worth more than that. Like they deserve better than that. But you can only do so much for a p- you can't force people to do shit. So if she isn't listening and she just gets back with him anyways or if he doesn't listen and he gets back with her anyways, like, You can't, you kind of just have to say fuck it because they're self-sabotaging and that's on them.
And at that point, all you can do is hope for the best for them and pray for them and just don't cut them off because of it because they obviously are still going to need someone at the end of the day. But just try to be there for them and I guess just keep listening to them rant. I guess if they keep running about how toxic they are.
I wanna friend in the same exact situation I am And this is difficult really am but I would tell them that but please don't get back together again with them because you've got her cheating on you blah blah blah and same time again there I don't I can literally stop them but I can give them
You know, it's just like that. It's just like that. Um, like I'm over my ex, but like he still hits me up sometimes. You know, and I always got a reply.
I love my ex so so so so so so much Um, I want him back for real, but I don't think he want me back But I think he do it at the same time And like I like I love him. I don't care. I love him for real Um, he's so fine Mm-hmm. He's so mm. He's so mm. He's so fucking fine. I broke up with him, but It's okay Because either way, I'm gonna get back with him and if not, I'm gonna still wait
No I will just be like I told you because literally whenever my friend gets a boyfriend or something I can like read the boyfriend and see if like he's gonna be a heartbreaker or not and then I always be right about the dude and then my friends like I should've listen to you it's like dude yeah you should've listen to me I'm always right about these stupid boys like I was just be like OK you can get hurt but I just tried to warn you
I honestly couldn't give a shit not my life not my problem anyways Fuck go yeah I know what you want to sex with me upside down tea is going to protect me when I was down bad assisting me since I'm next to the beach with steal my kids were sick to me fuck girl yeah I will show him that sex with me upside down T is the one protecting me when I was down