Okay, picture this. What would you do if the person you're seeing says that they're keeping their options open as in dating multiple people besides you? How would you handle it? Because I've had friends be totally fine and say, okay We'll just see where things go and I've had other friends be like no, it's either me or it's over. I would have to say I'm the latter. I really can't really see myself dating multiple guys at once, but I'm not judging anyone who does that. Just for me, I keep it one and only. That's just the way I've always been. But again, not judging anyone I'm just curious to hear your stance.

I wouldn't do anything. I'm not going to pretend like I married him, so I don't need him to pretend like he married me. And frankly, I think it's crazy to cut off your options for someone as if they married you when they haven't even made moves to marry you, which is what cutting off your options is supposed to mean. And I understand that we cannot even fathom such a path to marriage in a culture that socializes us to be relationships in ways that are manufactured to lead ultimately to poverty and broken families. But it's my life's mission to teach that.

Depends on that what we agreed on before you know we like like on low doing it like cause like like I know like some Lego friends but I'm really not like that and I don't know I just kind of weird

Honestly that's amazing no I wouldn't date someone who is like that every day in your for me and me only

I think it's 2023 and keeping your options open while getting to know people, just getting to know people's surface level is okay. Now if you're saying, yo, I'm getting to know you and I'm doing things with you and I'm doing things with other people, you might want to put your red flag alert up because that could be a whole another problem.

Yeah, nah, you just don't want to be canceled, but anyways, it's a fuck. It's either you or me. I'm not an option. I don't give a fuck. What the fuck?

I just think it's tiring to talk to multiple people but like at the same time you can't really expect the other person you're saying to not see other people and to be honest I'm not OK with that like you know I should be there only option but It's their choice I guess

Me personally I'm in my whole area so I like the a lot of people at once But I don't want those people to do anything out with other people I mean sometimes I won't care sometimes I make it upset exceptions like if I don't really like them like that then OK but if I do that no what the fuck

Say no questions asked so funny job and bro what the fuck like what I like I mean if you seen him and see if any options are open but if we like locked in China you feel me then it's over

How I see it is if you guys are not having sex with each other and you guys have just started casually testing the waters and talking hey that's cool you guys might drift apart because of differences and stuff like that but if you were literally fucking the person and being vulnerable with them telling them your deepest secrets letting your emotions pour out and then they go in like tell you oh yeah I've been sleeping with this person at the same time and sleeping with you now get the fuck out of here

I'd be like, sis you gotta go! Oh no, sis you gotta go!