Read or listen to this book once per day for two weeks to change your life. It was published in 1903, so free versions are readily available, including on YouTube. The goal is to read program your minds. As such, you can expect your minds to initially resist the information if it is vastly different from what you currently believe. After all, your mind is there partially to help you run on autopilot, which requires stability in its belief systems, so it is inclined to reject anything that is unfamiliar. Thus, continual exposure to the new content will cause it to become less threatening, and eventually non-threatening, and therefore familiar. It is a suggested regimen of once per day for two weeks, So allow your mind to initially reject it. That's okay. That's normal. Just persist until you mentally stop fighting it, and then keep going. That will reprogram your thoughts, which will reprogram your behavior, which will reprogram your life. That's how you change your life.