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How do you handle conflict in a relationship I think for me if something makes me feel uncomfortable or there's an argument or disagreement I need my time and space to process what has happened and I've been with someone who likes to talk there and then in the moment and it's kind of hard to deal with because I sometimes don't know how much time I need some time is it two days three days four days I just need to understand what I'm feeling before I start speaking out if that makes sense I'm the type of person I don't really like speaking in the moment if I'm upset because what I might be feeling might not Might not know that it won't make sense but if I was feeling angry then three days later then I can realise actually you know what I played a part in this or actually the reason why I was so upset is because this this and this I tend to like yeah I sent you want to come from a logical standpoint as opposed from my actual emotions and it would be great to hear what you guys think when it comes to deal with conflict and your patterns
I think if you communicate there is no conflict between and I think the best way to solve your problem it's like to talk and to understand each other and to understand the reason of why your partner is mad and be there for him and tell him that he's wrong that you love him and I think like this I think this is the best way
This sounds great but I think this is very unrealistic just because like you can communicate however you want it doesn't mean the other person will hear you you can communicate however you want it doesn't mean that the person won't pop their defences however I do understand what you're trying to say but again I think it's a realistic
I don't think it's unrealistic because if you ask me actually two months ago I would be in the same eye with you but I am at a person that I'm really in love with Justin the weather he communicates and he reassured me about everything that I am thinking like I do not know him very well with the way that he treated me and the way he communicate when I'm angry or when I wanna fight it's like something that I really really like about him so I think there are some
There are some people that knows this thing and know how to communicate and to understand you and to deal with the situation without even fighting so there is hope for everyone believe me
I think the best way to deal with conflict in a relationship is to always be honest and always know that if at the end of the day you can't control the outcome or you can control is your part in it and it's better to be honest than to play games, I think.
I think the best way to deal with conflict is to like be open and honest about how you process conflict. Like for you for example, for you to be open with that like I'm gonna need time to process this because I think we're never the same. Two people are never the same in like how they deal with anything and especially conflict and I think just being open about like how you react it's gonna like help the other person understand
And obviously if the two are very different then you can also talk about like how to how to make it easier in the future like how you both can maybe work on maybe getting closer in the way that you want to deal with it. But like yeah so I think for me I've been telling my partner a lot about like I shut down when this happens, when this happens I might feel anxious and that That helps him understand me and he does the same towards me.
And I think that's majorly beneficial because then, like, no matter what it is, because if someone's like withdrawing or if someone's being more on the talkative front, like, if the other person's not the same, they might take that as like, feeling... Because it's so different from yourself, it might feel wrong or it might feel hard, but if you're able to talk about it, you're having... Like you're more able to see how where that person comes from and have a better understanding
Yeah I agree with you like if I don't have my space I think I will do something that I would regret doing so whenever like I'm actually not in a relationship but whenever I can sort out with someone I always need like some time to discover what just happened and then come to like some sort of conclusion
Fucking God, the best idea of a conflict relationships is just to communicate. Did you just say insurrection? And make it known. It's almost definitely communication.
Hey, to be honest, I'm still learning and still growing with this one. But what I've definitely learned is there always has to be a bigger person to just rationalize everything. You know, you can come back and you guys can talk, but if one person has to have rational things where it's like, okay, it's kind of getting heated, let's take a step back and then let's come back and talk to it. I feel like that is 100%.