I feel like no matter how a relationship starts, whether it's online like a dating app or offline like work or school or through friends, I feel like at some point you introduce them to family. And so I want to ask at what point would you introduce your partner to family? I'm Middle Eastern like I'm Persian to be specific and there's just different ways to go about it traditionally versus how things are today. I mean I'm American born and raised so my parents are pretty much okay with the American lifestyle of introducing a boyfriend. I would say six months in maybe a year like something around that range like not going wood. I'm just trying to figure this out. But yeah, I'm very curious to hear what you guys have to say about this.
Yeah, I think I probably agree with you and yeah, it depends on You know who your partner isn't who what their customs are you on? Yeah, I just want to mesh with whatever they're doing, but yeah I mean I've introduced people to parents too early and then it's just like Constant questions and you know if things don't work out and it's like oh what happened to them Oh, are you still seeing them? Oh, and you're just like oh But, you know, it's not bad, but, you know, so now I'm like, I'll wait a little bit.
I think after and two months to 3 months and that's a long time but I think you've got a to introduce them you've got it you know I am no yeah I think I think you have to like the 67th day whatever time that may be Yeah if you've Gotta know you like them for real before that happens
I think to be honest, you can't really pinpoint a certain moment in the relationship. I think it depends on the person because if you meet someone and they're amazing, they have amazing grades, they've never done anything bad. then honestly a problem with introducing them earlier than other people.
I was for more additional also would like to know my my family is Muslim and everything so it takes a bit more time with me and I'll be more serious that if I meet them there gonna pass me the mean like opposite of each other as one of those things so it depends like I like to see if you might be discount depends on where we are tons of what we gonna do with food
That's a good question I think for me it's more and honestly like domino time but it's more like the amount of them The amount of time it takes for me to really feel comfortable and really feel like this is the person that is like the great candidate for my family and like you know I just for him because I think they like there's always that
I feel like when I am comfortable with the person and I feel good about it then I would've introduced him and I don't have to even worry about this because I've been with my husband for 10 years now I met him when I was 19 still living at home so they met quite early on but nowadays I have no clue
I would introduce them when I feel that it's solid. Like this is, I mean they would probably already know who I'm dating but I wouldn't like do an official like hey let's all get together thing until I really knew like it was working. But I just feel like my family's too nosy so It would be inevitable. They'd meet before I was ever ready. I don't even know anymore.
I mean, as soon as possible really, because if you're actually wanting to be in a committed relationship, you should also want to meet my parents and get to know them. because if you don't want to that makes me feel like you're not really serious.
Most families like really not weird about this, but if you bring your significant other around regardless of how long y'all been together, we're going to give you that respect because you choosing to bring that person around the family says that this is my person, this is the person that I choose to be with and we're going to give you that respect straight out the gate. Like I'm going to do that because that's my brother and if he's choosing to be with you, that means he feels you know XYZ about you. I'm going to give you the respect that you that you to deserve like