So I will be eight months pregnant I guess 32 weeks tomorrow and I am trying to come up with a game plan kind of in my head which I know it's not gonna work so my partner is going to be home in two weeks I'm trying to figure out like a good schedule for both of us when we have a newborn I'm thinking is it crazy if I am the only one that wakes up in the middle of the night I want him to be well rested that way If he the next day whatever the following if like I had a rough night he still 100% for our toddler and even the newborn well I get some rest I don't want us to be both tired and not give like 100% to our toddler What are you guys think this is my gonna do too much

So I think it's good to talk to your partner and see what their expectations are to you if one parent is staying home another parent is going to work then you know that. They need to work deathly needs to get some good sleep but also for you to survive and be a good parent do you need good sleep I'm pretty sure like it depends on how you're doing feedings and things like that but I think trying to set up a schedule and seeing if it works is a great idea