Which year red flag when starting a new relationship? Mine would be things like he doesn't have a job, he doesn't have his own place, doesn't have a car, doesn't have any ambition. Hearing things that like he's not being good to his other girlfriends or he's a bad friend, like that is definitely red flags for me. What about you?

An instant turn off or a red flag for me is when someone doesn't have anything that they are passionate about because that just shows me, you know, they've never been dedicated, they've never been focused, they don't really have something that they invest in or stand for. So it sort of, you know, makes me wonder about the other parts of their character.

If you just contrast someone

My red flag? I don't keep up. I'm not going to keep calling you. I'm not going to sit on the phone with you all the time. You're not always going to have access to me. You gotta be okay with it.