Okay, I know this is going to spark a debate, so I'm very curious about your thoughts. Imagine that you got asked out to the movies, and this person said, we only have time for the movies, we're not going on a walk, we're not getting dinner, and basically it is you sitting in your own seat for two hours in the dark watching something on a screen. Is that considered a date to you? Because to me, that's a no. I'm not communicating with you, and if they ended up paying for the ticket, that's really great but that doesn't really validate a date to me because I want to get to know you better. So if it were to be a date it would have to have something additional because otherwise respectfully I'm just going to decline and ask to reschedule so we could do something fun together. But yeah, I would love to hear your thoughts.
So I am so, so with you in that, like, I love your opinion and for me to know as well, because there has to be conversation going for it to be a day for me. That's my opinion.
Yeah, that's what I was saying in my post because if you're only going to the movie theater and back, I do not consider that a date, but if it was anything more like a walk or dinner, then yes, I would. but to each of their own.
No for the first date now because you can't really talk in the movies but I also don't like dinner because all you do is talk and it's just like interrogation so I go to like summer camp fun but like also talk
No because I rather after the movie we go eat I like to do all like maybe like more fun stuff but just going to the movies this is kind of boring like now
No that's an absolute no like I want to be able to have a conversation with you like I wanna go to dinner not movies like I'd like that to be like a second date kind of thing because like the first day you want to get to know them you know like if we're just sitting in the dark watching a movie that's not we can't talk so that's not me learning about you
Very a good way of putting it for real actually actually love your your sound bits or your talks, but I feel that or could like Or we could like do move one night at home that way like you can actually talk and like eat from your kitchen and stuff You're like pause the video go to the restroom, you know something like that. Oh, yeah, definitely like just going to date where you can communicate.
Yeah honestly I'm not a big fan of lake just a movie day it would have to be like dinner at least before or after or even just like a little dessert like it doesn't even have to be full on dinner but just the movies no