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Okay, so this is part two for the unexpected things about motherhood. So throughout the years of being a mom, I learned to lean on myself and also I learned everything on my own too. Throughout this year alone, I have removed myself from so many different certain situations and I definitely don't let my kids around that either. I will not let my kids to be picked on and made out to be a competition. I cannot tell you how many times I have had another family member's kid hit a milestone before my kid and then my kid gets judged for it and they get looked at differently. And then you're going to turn around and call my kid stupid. Yeah, you don't do that to my kids. Mama Bear will come out. So like I said in part one, I will definitely give this advice to my kids when they become parents. Not everyone wants what is best for you. everyone is going to be by your side, they rather leave and judge you for every single move you make and be prepared to lose certain friends and certain family members because you it's just it's tough out there, especially when you have these kinds of people in your life that really do not care about you and your kids. Like for example, like those are your grandkids, your niece, your nephew, and you don't care about them? Like I don't see how someone can be okay with hating on an innocent child. Like I don't understand that but I definitely will tell my kids that advice because I don't want my kids to end up hurt and disappointed like I did because they don't deserve that.
This is definitely a very good point this has happened to me a lot I have a family full of moms and the one that life is very just particular is my step mom
I just feel like a lot of moms especially expecting moms need to know about this like this is my number one advice that I would give to any mom and I just don't want to see anyone go through that it's it's very hurtful
Which is my mom's partner and she's always like whenever they visit and stuff like let's say he's like not walking yahoo back where are you still not working right now it's like there's talk about like
Like right now that he's like 18 month and a half after that she has mentioned a couple times that like wow like he still not potty trained like my kids at 18 months or I think so
I think yeah, I think she says 16 months 18 months like the her kids already or potty trained and I don't know every time she just rings up just like anything to do with Zayn and how he's like I don't know if that's just like her way of communicating.
My toddler returned to back in January so just like a few months ago and he still not potty trained and he just hasn't showed interest in it like I've always been the kind of mom to wait until they show a little bit of interest in it and he's just not quite there
But it's only so frustrating annoying when I hear her say anything about housing my son it's not like still no eating a mile stone so I see you girl so yeah
Oh yeah I definitely feel the frustration and being annoyed and I've just learned to let it go in one ear and out the other and I try my best not to take it so seriously and that has helped me a little bit
But it's also hard like how can you not take something so seriously when you're talking about your kid you know like that's just it's a tough like it's really hard and like I'm still learning how to not let it get
It's almost makes me happy that my kids don't have any cousins or anything because the constant comparison between people is so freaking annoying even between moms you don't even know like I playgroups if I'm there so judge mental like for what like why every kid is different