Hey guys, so there was another sound bit that I heard actually earlier today about someone's partner being a bit authoritative or an authoritarian instead of being more of a partner. I'm curious do you guys have a partner that is authoritative or authoritarian or uninvolved or permissive? So I'm gonna go over the four are authoritative. I'm sure you can kind of tell being very author... I can't even speak, being of much authority. So being very assertive, saying like, let's talk about it, having high expectations, being responsive, being power with, authoritarian is having low expectations, punishment, still having clear rules, emotionally distant and kind of using words like because I said so uninvolved that's easy like you're on your own type of thing and then permissive is like Telling you you're the boss they avoid conflict. They have few rules. They're not direct. They have low expectations And I'm curious. Do you guys have like which one of these is Your partner another partner has to be like any particular one more than another but I'm curious Yeah, just let me know what you guys think and if you want more details on it
It's funny that you ask that question because I've never in my life ever ever ever had to ask a woman to be submissive, to be gentle, to be sensitive, to be understanding, to not scream yell. I'm learning that some people don't apologize because they don't know how to. They don't know what to be sorry about. There's a lot of narcissistic characteristics out here in people and relationships. out.
Your audio keep cutting off, I don't know if you want to cut them up in twos or something, but you can only record 30 seconds here if that helps you for the future. But yeah, there's definitely a lot of narcissists out there in the world. Now what I will say is that just because she's not submissive does not mean that she's a narcissist and definitely not like doubting who you're dealing with is potentially your narcissist, I truthfully think that everyone has a little bit of narcissism in them.
Yeah, so I feel like everyone has a little bit of narcissism in them. More of like an ego thing, you know, where you have to kind of heal and fix that. So, I mean, as long as she's like willing to fix it and it's not like out the ass narcissism, I mean... Whatever. Obviously, do what you want with that information. But yeah, I feel that I hope it gets better because that's a whole bunch of BS.
So this is what it is right here. Submissiveness, I'm talking about two things. When our individuals say they don't want, they don't like to feel this or that. And when a same partner expresses the same things, you choose to ignore that. That's the definition of gaslighting and narcissism. You hear me? This is a thing called reactive abuse. I mean, no person is going to take mental abuse. They're going to retaliate. But...
Whoa, I did not even know that reactive abuse was a thing, but you know what? That makes so much sense That she is wild. Wow. You have opened my mind, sir You have brought some new knowledge to my life.
Very true. Yeah. Completely disregarding someone's feelings and thoughts and saying, no, that's not the reality. Okay, well, guess what? This is my reality and you're going to acknowledge it, even if you don't agree with it.