So I've had a few of my friends start discussing about what is more painful. Is it more painful to lose a lover or is it more painful to lose a friendship? And I want to know what y'all think. Personally, I say relationship and a partner as a lover versus a friendship. I know a lot of people may not agree, but I feel like in a partner relationship, in a romantic relationship, you're sharing everything. You're sharing your body. Like, you don't share your body with your friends in the same way. And you don't share your heart and mind in the same way. And it's just more deeper for me than losing a friend. Maybe I'm weird or fucked up in some way, but that's how I roll. How do you guys roll? How do you feel? which one is more painful.
I feel like you can't really compare the two it's a bit like they both have their own qualities and you love them both in their own ways but if I had to choose one like the question you asked I would say it's harder and more painful to lose a lover because I love you that you have for that person it's just gonna hit a little bit more different so yeah and to be fair you also love your friends especially if you've known him for a long time and you trust him.