Okay, so this is gonna be me more emotionally unloading on you guys. So sorry. But I just learned some news about my family today and to give you a background My family and I are just having some issues. My mom fired me in January. My brothers in my family have never made an effort in my kids lives And so once my mom fired me in January and she told me they've known for like a year that they needed to let me go I was pretty much done and over it and so come to find out I'm gonna be an aunt again but I learned of course from my grandma not my brother so I'm just I'm upset because it just goes to show like I never told my brothers I'm done communicating with them I told my mom I was done communicating with her my My dad's never reached out. So I just, nobody's reaching out and it just kind of sucks. And now I'm finding out the one time I reach out to a family member, AKA my grandma, I freaking learn that I'm gonna be an aunt again. And it's just really shitty. Cause it makes me feel like I need to cut ties with everybody. Cause like this hurts. Like I, I've deleted a lot of social media because it was really hard seeing how frequently my brothers hang out together. So how frequently my one brother hangs out with my niece, but then like they're non-existent for my kids. Like my kids don't even know them. Like when my brothers try to go up to my kids, they're terrified of them. And then my brothers shoe them off or like go away and never give them another chance because they don't act like buddy buddy with them, even though they've never ever made an effort to be in their lives. So it's just, it's really upsetting, but I know nothing would be different if I was still in contact with them because this is just them.

I unfortunately can totally relate to this absolutely nobody in my family has made an effort to meet or to have a contact with all three of my children. So I'm sorry you're going through that.

Girl my heart like first of all it just blows my mind because this is just another thing that I can so relate to you on because I am not close with my brothers either and they don't really make much of an effort

I'm so sorry you're going through this and as sounds absolutely horrible and you do not deserve this everyone deserves a village I too do not have one so I feel for you and I hope it gets better in the future

That I see you I hear you and my heart goes out to you I am the black sheep of my family I moved away and I'm really young and so you're not alone you really aren't alone it's OK

I remember us talking about this and I actually found out about my father having his daughter for my parents because they don't talk to me but now she's like or but they don't

I can really understand my in-laws are our issue and oh my goodness. Ugh, I just wish I could slap them, knock some sense into them, you know?

I'm so sorry that's really sad I'm sorry