Okay getting straight to the point here, how many dates have you been on over this past year? I know for certain people it's some or lots of dates and for others not really that much. For me personally I feel like I've had a good amount but yeah because I have a partner so I'm not really like dating as in like trying to find somebody I'm just like dating my current partner if that makes sense so I mean the more the merrier but yeah let me know.