Okay, you guys got to hear this situation now between a girl and the guy she's dating. So basically, they've been dating for a very long time, they have kids together, and throughout the entire time that they've been dating, he has been cheating on her non-stop to the point where she has lost count. And she believes the reason why he's cheating, again non-stop, is because they are not married. So, do you believe a cheater stops cheating after marriage? I mean, honestly, my perspective, it is possible, but that's really a slim chance, so I'm gonna have to go with no way. I am very sorry. Like, people cheat, anybody cheats on anyone for whatever reason that has, at the end of the day, nothing to do with you. And mainly, it's because of lack of respect. And, I mean, she did say there were kids involved, so I'm not a parent, I can't give her advice on that, but I will have to say that I do not believe a cheater stops cheating after marriage. What do you guys think?

I'm no professional, but common sense wise, like the whole point of boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is to lead up to marriage. If you found the relationships like the boyfriend and girlfriend stage, you have not unlocked the achievement of marriage and you don't deserve marriage. It's that simple. Like why would you stay with that person and marry him and give him the fucking, why would you even give him the time of day?

Well, like for her it was like constant and stuff. I don't think he'd stop cheating after marriage. I don't think so at all. For other people, maybe. For her, I don't think so, considering it's constant.

Okay, I am not no psychologist, but I'm thinking the real reason why he's cheating on her time and time again, some of them that she has lost count is because since they have kids, he thinks it's okay because he knows she's not going to leave him because of the kids. That's why he's doing it over and over again.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Leave that man, girl. Leave that man. If my, my boyfriend did me like that, I had to kick his ass. Not, cause, especially if you're gonna try to get married with him after he cheated on you multiple times, that is just crazy. I'm not getting married with a man who cheated on me.

Marriage won't solve all your problems, it never does and that's why you end up getting divorced. What's the point of spending so much money on a wedding for all that to happen? No. What I would say is get out of that relationship, he's a walking red flag my darling.

In my eyes, I'm going to say that I agree with you, it's a very slim chance, but in my experience, I know that people change and people can change for the better, but the fact that it takes the legality of somebody getting married to stop their cheating or stop doing something like that, that for me means that they just have a hard time with commitment in general.

If he personally feels comfortable cheating within the relationship, you know, why would he change at the altar? I guess that's really the question mark that, uh, I mean it's like saying that. If he feels comfortable cheating now, he's going to change overnight? I don't, I don't think so.