I had someone write in a little while ago asking about what to do because two of her friends were not getting along with each other and it was stressing her out and You know, I want us to put ourselves in her shoes So imagine this your two friends are not getting along and want you to choose a side. What would you do? You know, I'm just gonna say the best thing to do is not pick a side You know show them both that you're still there for them and you know I know this is probably gonna get a bit of a disagreement but I feel like you should not get involved unless it's going to be physically or mentally harmful. And if that does happen, grab an adult if you're a minor and if, you know, you're an adult yourself, just make sure you handle it respectfully and peacefully as you can. Because again, things can get really messy and you don't want to lose either friend, right? Um, that's just the best thing I can think of right now. You know, maybe I'll think more of it in the coming days, but you guys, I want to hear what you have to say.

Person OK I know it's a girl talk but I'm here anyway points whenever two people are in a fight I will let them both know or like we planned I will get both sides of the story right before I make a decision and that kind of thing and if there's genuinely just like no side to pick honestly I just stay out of it it's their drama not mine

Yeah I'm not gonna lie if I have two friends that are not getting along and I have honestly nothing to do with it then it's just not my business I would not be involving myself and I and if they sell insistent on me involving myself then they got me all the way messed up because I would not I wouldn't I just would not get involved that's on them

I'm not taking no side like I'm just be like the mediator like obviously point out was right was wrong in my opinion but I'm not gonna take your size back

Ask me for their advice. I would tell them to sit down and try to and I would try to be the conflict mediator But ultimately they would have to work it out amongst themselves and to figure out what the problem is Then try to find a solution Use rationality and Reasonability If they can't you know take responsibility for their actions Within themselves if they can.

If they can't find common ground then I would just suggest that they separate, you know, for however long. And if they can reconcile later on, cool, once they have some time to self-reflect, but if not, they could just go their separate ways. But I'm not going to choose sides, I'm going to remain neutral unless one of them becomes blatantly disrespectful and over the top.

Because I am the one they true to size it all in my prayers not an ice again in a situation where when something about a boy and they wanted me to pick size and I thought I was born at I was stupid so I went with my friend that actually was in the right and they were both in the wrong and so they drop me I drop them and when I think the more and I think the same girl

I'm not picking a side, I'm not gossiping about the other one with the other one. I have to let them know. She's my friend, she's my friend. I love both of you, don't put me in the middle. I'm here for both of you. You can work it out if you decide not to work it out, I'm still here. But don't bring me in the middle of it. I'm not going to be stressed as well because it's not my, it's not, I'm not the problem. I just have to be the peaceful one, you know?

I would unfriend them both because if you're just gonna drag me in the middle of this situation Like, no, you guys are both toxic. That's done. Perfect.

Don't pick a side just leave it as it is some basils or just not for you to fight

Well this happened I'm a minor and I just dropped both of them so I will just stop hitting each other it's pretty funny not sure I just grabbed them from on the ground Yeah that's what I did and then I just kind of like stop fighting so it's affected do that