So I heard a similar question being asked about this situation and I kind of wanted to ask you guys here would you rather take a risk with someone out of your league or someone you think is out of your league like you think you can't be with this person but you feel like you could take the chance on you know making the first move or would you rather just straight up go back to your ex? For me personally like I always say life begins outside your comfort zone so I'm fine taking a risk with someone new and just seeing what's out there because you never know like the worst thing that could happen is the word no you know what I mean but if comfort is what you're looking for and you want to go back to your ex I would love to hear your side so so yeah which side would you lean towards for me again it's taking a risk with someone new.

Take the risk! Take the risk! Hell no! Get the hell out of your comfort zone! Nope! I'm moving on. I'm getting out of my comfort zone. I'm taking the risk. Never thought I would say this, but I'm taking the risk.

How about take the risk on yourself and not with somebody else? How about take the risk on yourself and be alone? How about that? What about that is the question, not which way you would go as far as being in a relationship. How about taking the risk on being alone? Because I've taken the risk. It's been three and a half years and that risk has been the best thing that I've ever done in my life, right?

Well, obviously the ex is an ex for a reason, right? So, not to say that I don't believe you can't go back to your exes and reconcile and things like that, but I don't know. I don't really agree that anybody is necessarily out of our league, you know? I'm always up for a challenge, so you never know what one has to offer.

This is a great topic and no risk, no reward. That has been the lesson for the last half of 2023 for me. Why go back to your ex? That's familiar. Come on. Risking with someone new, even though it may not work out, you guys can teach each other things about each other that you may have known or not known.