Okay getting straight to the point here, what's your quote-unquote toxic trait? Because I, my friends and family joke around about this but honestly it is true, but I am not adventurous in terms of doing anything last minute. I am an advanced planner, I need to know what's going on, I don't like surprises, so when my schedule is thrown off I just can't cope, like I kind of just have a bunch of feelings about it, but my toxic trait is that I just can't just go with the flow, you know, I really have to, you know, have a very deep thought process about anything and everything. So that's mine, tell me what yours is.