you meet someone, it gets to that stage where you're going to get intimate and they ask you to go to a sexual health screening clinic. Do you go? And do you value what that person has asked? Does it make you feel important? Does it make you feel weird?

I would value it. I probably would be or mostly I'd be the first one to ask like I'll make it a whole date or yeah like I don't feel like there's nothing wrong with it honestly everyone should do it.

I'm totally on board with this. I think it's a super mature route. You never know nowadays and sometimes you don't even know you have something because you had sex with somebody or with a male partner that you know they don't have signs or symptoms.

You absolutely go. I married a person that had HIV and did not take treatment and did not disclose to me and gave me HIV. Thankfully there's treatment.

Hey Natural, what a fantastic question. Yeah I don't think that's the wrong thing to ask somebody. In fact I would suggest that we all do that before we have a new sexual partner. Yeah it's a good thing. Nothing to be ashamed of.

It wouldn't be weird for me if anything I would appreciate a person more for bringing that up because you know it's it's health that we're talking about and it's better to be aware it's better to know.