You definitely shouldn't do the shame game and beat yourself up and be guilty You know for taking time for yourself. It's like the oxygen mask thing in the airplane They say to put it on yourself first, you know so that you can help others It's the same thing, you know Especially with parenting if we don't take time for ourselves and take time to be mentally healthy Then we're no good to anybody else, you know, so yeah, don't feel guilty girl Take those take that 30 minutes to an hour. Why not?