So I was on Facebook today and I was reading this post that some girl wrote in a group I'm involved in but basically she was asking something along these lines and I thought okay let me bring that over here. So tell me what would you do if both you and your best friend have a crush on the same person because for me the first thing I'm going to do is have a heart to heart talk because time and time again I have seen this type of situation play out where somebody put that crush in between the friendship and then the friendship crumbled so bad and I obviously care about my best friend and I want to make sure she's okay. This has never happened to me by the way. I'm just saying this hypothetically but I have known people who've been involved in it ordeal like this and because they didn't have a heart-to-heart talk or didn't like communicate clearly things are really messy. So that's what you don't want. But yeah, communicate, try to, you know, see things through. And, you know, you can't also force your crush to pick, you know, the heart wants what it wants. But I'm curious to hear your guys' take.

Well I haven't had a heart to heart talk how long have y'all been a lot well how long have they been friends I walked up I think relief LOL OK they're not talking to another barely what a blood clot that'll make sense won't jump off I'll just share what the fuck is wrong with Sharon go to your friends and he's awesome chair

I'm a guy My best friend's a girl so it's kind of impossible unless she's a lesbian being. But yeah.

It's not a good idea particularly because the other person is your best friend and if you guys can have, if you guys have the cross and the same person, there could be multiple relationship entanglement issues and you might end up losing either or maybe both relationships. So it's not a good idea but at the same time, it is definitely possible that people could end up in these kind of weird situations.

I think the problem is the lack of emotional and intellect. Why would you put yourself in a situation to where you're going to get pressed if your friend acquires someone that you want? There's like millions and thousands of options. That being said, I think the dude is probably just trying to chill. And that situation would cause a lot of conflict in his life. And he didn't choose to have people like him. So I think that it's more so being mature and understanding these things.

OK so with this one time at school what happen was so I asked her what happened before I told her I liked him and then I get like really had iContact and like weren't saying they were are you though but she was like see you like I don't care if you like it and like a couple days later she told me and my friend She was in the middle

She was like yeah I like him and then I looked at her and then my friend who is in the middle she's like yeah Jaylin likes him too and I will die so we were making eye contact cause I was already looking her last And earn she lie does my me uncle acid in mouth so you buy back up I am OK OK because they knew it

Hey Siri since they were little little but I wasn't gonna mess with that because I was my best friend but I knew I knew who is in second grade but him and then she stopped liking him And I can't installation I said I was gonna stop liking him but I'm not I still like in my little bit but not really because I don't know

No it is the girlfriend yeah versus friends but will call him see he lives by me a live behind me but we're gonna see because I don't really know I'm really liking my dad anymore we can't just friends because Oh no why are you still like him does that's why I still I just like him he was funny idiot and asked me out but I rejected him for my best friend but it's OK

I think this really depends I definitely have friends who have the same type as me there was a situation where a friend and I matched with the same guy online and I stopped pursuing him because she seemed way more invested but there were other situations where we both saw the same guy in person and I wasn't willing to make a move and she was and so obviously it didn't matter to me

Honestly, Sharon is scared. Sharon is scared. I'm just saying, I'm just saying.