So I listened to another one of Jay Shetty's videos where he said, I think it was also in his podcast with his wife, Raddy, but he said that the best way to love someone is not only to love them, but it's to encourage them and make them love themselves. And I think that was very beautiful because I think that the highest form of love that you can show to someone is like helping them love themselves because at the end of the day all Love that we give out or all of that we receive Will come from within ourselves. So if we can't love ourselves, it's hard to love other people too so I think that was a very beautiful way of putting it and I just wanted to share it.

I like this question too. I really do because I feel like if you don't love yourself Then how do you expect someone to love you the way you want to be loved? um Abs-abs-a fucking Lutely. Sorry for cussing, but yeah, absolutely It definitely starts within sometimes you do have to date yourself, you know you know what you want and that comes from loving yourself.

That's the point. A relationship is not about what's in it for you. A relationship's value comes from being able to and increase someone else's life. Make their life better. Bring them happiness.

I completely disagree. This is nothing other than a violation of internal boundaries. You cannot make someone else feel something, you cannot make someone else think something, you cannot make someone else do something. And outside of codependency issues, what's the appeal? What's the use? You should only be dating emotionally healthy people who already love and respect themselves and who treat themselves well. And because you cannot control someone else, your only obligation to them is how you actively think of them and how you treat them. That's it.