So a few weeks back I did a post about sort of the benefits or some of the benefits of having a long distance relationship and it was mostly about like the importance of communication and how having a long distance relationship sort of like forces you to have like really good and healthy communication in order for it to work and I'm a few weeks in now from not having seen him since last time and it is tough for sure, I'm not gonna discredit that, but I wanted to come here to make a post about why I'm doing long distance So I felt like many people just write it off as not an not Not something that they would do or not just not all anything that would be on the radar But I think for me and obviously this varies from every person I get that not everyone would want to do it but for me Sure, he's not here. He doesn't live here. He lives in another country. We go back and forth. The times that we spend apart are definitely hard but the fact that I found a person that I want to spend the rest of my life with and a person that aligns with me on so many levels and I really felt when I met him that I was like I met my person and for me me, any sort of distance wouldn't actually be in the way of that because I feel like that is so rare to find a person like him and find someone that just aligns with you on so many levels. That for me, the distance is, yeah, it's an annoying part, but we're working to overcome that as well. And eventually we will be together for every day of our lives and then it's all going to be worth it. So yeah, I would take a bit of discomfort and inconvenience right now in order to like be with him for the rest of my life. It sounds cheesy and it is but that's sort of why my motivation to keep going with it.