So I was talking to a couple people in my circle and not only that but just like hearing about people's experiences on social media, it just seems that dating now more than ever is so difficult. You know, I'm hearing things about bread crumbing, getting ghosted, love bombed, apparently a new term called getting zombied. I didn't even know what that was until this week. And it just really has me thinking, what the hell is going on? Why do you think people are having a hard time with dating? Is it the dating pool out there? Is it the exposure to technology? Is it, I don't know, outside opinions? I am very lost on this and I would really love to hear your two cents.

You know I think it's because we are instilled with this idea that you have to be dating and we've really taken the focus off of becoming hole first ourselves and being happy and a lot of us are trying to fill voids by going on dating apps and just looking relentlessly for people

To me it's because people are not dating for the right reasons. So if you're not out there giving the right energy to the situation, you're not going to get the right energy in return. That's all peace

Personally, I think that women in general have a hard time dating those who are straight-headed or sexual women have a hard time dating. Finding suitable men is because of hypersexuality, misogyny, objectification, a lot of men feeling entitled to women's bodies, and some women just not having high enough standards for themselves, unfortunately. A lot of women do settle so that they won't be lonely, so that they can brag and throw it in other people's heads, I have a man and all that. I'm just looking.

It's not good to be with a man who, you know, does not please you, is not satisfying to you, who is below your standards, or doesn't fulfill your needs and expectations, just to be able to say that you have someone, just to be able to pretend as though you're content with your life when you're not.

Because nobody knows how to act in this generation bro nobody nobody take a sit here and say they want love and shit but then when they get it they fucking it up just like me for real by yeah I think people are just like not like people are to like mentally fuck to be in a relationship or just evil people that just wanna hurt people cannot lie they see me Yeah

I think a lot of people have a best idea on what a relationship looks like because of social media and that kind of thing because we see these couples are like oh there's different steps to take no that is not what you do you take it at your own pace because everyone is different in this world obviously and you're either slow you're fast maybe you like and obviously communicate with your partner

Also in my experience him instead of just straight up going for someone I asked a guy out once not nationally because I liked him because I thought it was cute and I want to get to know him it wasn't like I already had a crush on him and I was able to get to know him more and that's when I finally made my decision it wasn't like oh I'm just gonna date him because he's cute I need to know what he's like

I think people are having a hard time with dating because they want microwave relationships when really a relationship is more like a crock pot. It's you know a relationship isn't like an air fryer it's not like an insta pot it's like an old-school crock pot where you had to dump all the ingredients in the pot and you just let it cook all day long which means you had to be patient Take your time, nurture it, all of that. You know, that's what I think.

I think everyone's opinion is valid in this I'm just for my own experience but I do want to add that I believe everyone needs to be more honest with themselves as to what they really want and what they're capable of giving to relationship and then looking for someone or if they find someone looking for the attributes that you know resonate with you naturally if it's a lot of like ulterior motives in like baseline like I know a lot of celebrities based on height or like based on what they have and things That

I didn't realize I got cut off but like one of the lady said if they get in for the wrong reason so they're Destin Fl sizing honestly like a big thing with self not just with the other person in the situation