Alright, picture this, you're in a relationship. Is it okay for you or your significant other to make new friends of the opposite gender? Do you think it's cool or is it straight up disrespectful? In my case, you know, with my partner, if anyone came into our lives beforehand, totally fine, they're welcome to stay. But if it's someone that's trying to join in now, you know, I'm gonna have some questions and I feel like it just depends on the context. But yeah, I would love to hear your two cents about this topic.

Definitely not. I'm not gonna lie. If I'm ever talking to a girl and taking her serious, she can never have no male friend. It depends if there was a male friend from beforehand. And like, it's all about context. Like you said, I need to see how they are. Like I need to assess the situation myself and see if I really believe they're just friends. Because I believe like literally 2% of male female friendships are purely platonic. So yeah, just depends on that but in terms of anyone new coming in, definitely not.

People are gonna think is very extreme But like if she genuinely was going against what I'm saying and still trying to form this friendship with the new guy I would just leave her. It's like this even me or him and you might see as extreme But truth is if you say no, then she still goes and does it anyway and then you stay with her She's gonna lose respect for you and down the line that this respect will just grow and grow and grow until Even though matter what you do even if you're still staying with her through all this she's just gonna leave you anyway because she'll lose respect for you and females don't stay with guys they don't respect

I feel like people are open to making new friends with the opposite gender. I think that's very like patriarchal, misogynistic, like, oh, women can't be friends with other women. But I think you obviously need to have common sense when your partner is being weird and then also understand that your partner is also a person outside of you and you don't control them. But you also have to trust your partner that they won't do anything weird when you're not there.

I think if they have the France before they meet me to keyboard making but after me I don't think it's something normal

No I'm gonna twisted no we need to meet new Mill friends you've got a friend you are Osmond me where you gonna go make new ones that Even friends before so that's fine but I swear when are the same time I don't take the piss and I don't I don't start saying I'm going out with my friend you to give noon before that

Babe if you don't have trust you don't have anything I mean sure I don't care But I will I have a boy best friend so if you don't like that that's too fucking bad

I guess it depends depends on the dad to the friend shows up and my boyfriend also shows up like if I see that there is a I wouldn't say a real friendship because it's something that is set up now but there they are on good terms like just friends and hanging hanging out once in the on the wild

Honestly I think it's fine with me I just think they need to have boundaries that like you know like I'm not gonna be in a relationship for five years plus just for someone from like two months ago to show up and come over our house all the time like top shit you know like that's like pushing your limits pushing your boundaries but like if you have boundaries and place and they like understand the boundaries it's OK

honestly yeah I'm not specific to having friends that are girls, duh I'm not gonna be that kind of girlfriend of like yeah you can have girlfriends or the girls and not have friends or the boys that's not being fair if I can have friends and her boys you can have friends and girls so we're even