Alright, picture this, you're in a relationship. Is it okay for you or your significant other to make new friends of the opposite gender? Do you think it's cool or is it straight up disrespectful? In my case, you know, with my partner, if anyone came into our lives beforehand, totally fine, they're welcome to stay. But if it's someone that's trying to join in now, you know, I'm gonna have some questions and I feel like it just depends on the context. But yeah, I would love to hear your two cents about this topic.

I think I'm going to get his ass beat if he try to get some new motherfucking friends asked to be a new motherfucking friend was like the anymore phones I think that's a sign to be slick

I think it just depends. It just depends on the level of trust you have with someone or, you know, their triggers, you know, normally in the relationships I've had, neither of us care whether or not we've got friends of the opposite gender. But, you know, if you're with someone that maybe has had people cheat on them in past or has some kind of trauma associated with that, you know, it's good to be aware and to not just just throw yourself into a relationship with somebody new, the opposite gender, if that's going to hurt them, you know.

I feel like I have the same type of view as you like if they were in their lives before me like obviously I'm not anyone to say who in who like they can't be friends with but like if they start beating someone does the opposite gender while they're like dating me obviously I'm gonna want to be in the know and like I'm not gonna prohibit them from being friends with them it's just kind of like I can tell when someone's being sneaky and as long as they're not sneaky it's fine

What a question on listen it's about the person I feel like initially I just want to say no but it's about the person you're dating if you know that's how they are you trust them they just got a learn to them but if they're a little sneaky and you know you don't trust them and they don't really have friends opposite sex like that or if they do make friends opposite sex it's always something then

Um, I feel like why are you trying to make new woman friends when you already have enough and you have me? like, what, what, you have more time that I don't know about?

See, it depends on the guy and the girl that he's making friends with. If he has a past history of doing sketchy things, I would say that's a bad sign. But if he's just normal and makes friends with people and introduces you, that's probably okay. But like I said before, if there's any bad vibe or a bad history there, just use your intuition. and it's probably correct.

It's cool because if you're gonna draw that boundary you're gonna have to like understand that it's gonna it can be difficult for people who actually like need to make friends with like the other do of agenda especially if this is organic you know like if you have like a coworker where you need to like being to contact with them or like you have like a classmate you need to be in a contact with like then you just that just has to happen um as far as like anything on organic then like no As far as like anything on organic then like now that other shit doesn't even need to have

No, absolutely not.

Personally, I don't care. I've definitely had partners that have cared and they did not like me having or making new female friends. My current partner doesn't care and she's always had like more guy friends than girlfriends. And now she's in school to be an airline mechanic so she's gonna end up in a male dominated field and she's gonna just make more guy friends. That's it. No big deal.

If I'm with somebody I want to be able to have that strong foundation of trust established. So yeah, my significant other can be friends with the same sex, the opposite sex, aliens from another world is cool with me. As long as they know how to handle themselves, you know, and the parameters of how we set the expectations of our relationship. And as long as they are good with that, then let's go with me.