I totally had an amazing time with my first child. She was easy-peasy. And then my second, my son, he was a nightmare. He was totally fine. He did have some like dairy issues and whatnot. And super colky, but other than that he literally had... he was a healthy baby. But he screamed all of the time. Like there was never a time. I could never put him down. And even when he was in my arms he was still screaming. Now my last baby, she's been pretty good too.