That's what I'm saying. So that's why it's like, is it really a pro or is it, I think it's more cons to it because once that person does catch feelings, now you've hurt someone's feelings, you know, you got yourself in this predicament where it really was supposed to be quote on quote, no strings attacked. But even sometimes the men fall for the girl and they're like, oh, I thought she weren't taking me serious. I thought I was just your friend's benefits. And then they start to get jealous because it's like, you know, it's just like, you never know. They They say it's the women, but men get y'all begin jealous too.