When my daughter was freshly three months old I found out I was pregnant with my son so I had two kids under the age of one so my kids are 11 months apart there for a little bit and I won't I won't sugarcoat it it was really hard but one of my tips that I would have for a new mom it's gonna have to come at the age of two is definitely never hesitate to ask for help you know having two kids it's hard having one kid is hard so any extra help that you can get is great another tip I have is to make sure that you're always involving your older child anyway you can far as asking them to grab a diaper or a Blankey it really makes him feel needed and important even though you know of course they're still important it needed it just makes their little mind know and remind them that they still are important So what's your advice for any mom that's going to have two kids of age of two

Like you said, involve the oldest in anything that you can. That way they don't feel left out. And just remember that the first few months, it's hard for them to have both.

And by the way, I just want to let you know that you are an absolutely amazing mom. And I applaud. I absolutely applaud your parenting style. And I want to let you know that you have come so far in life and I'm absolutely so proud.