So if your mom and you're on TikTok I'm sure you've seen the video going around where the mom states that you know she's probably training her daughter at one because she doesn't wanna be "" lazy and have her daughter be in a potty training at three well my daughter is three and she is not fully potty trained I've been working on this since 18 months and she's just not ready yet and you know for a while I was always like you know super like guilty that I felt super guilty that she wasn't potty trained because she is three but the thing is all kids develop differently they all learn differently I work at potty training her every day like it is an every day thing that I'd work with with her so it's not that I'm lazy it is just she is not ready yet and so when she is ready she will go So I don't know I just I don't like all the mom show me that's going around right now and I think their mom just need to be reminded that it's OK to not be doing everything that we see another mom doing on social media

At first I was like, okay, I'm gonna have 202. Like I can start potty training just because also I feel like my mother-in-law embedded that in my head that like they can learn young. But if he's not giving me signs, then I'm not gonna rush it.

So sometimes it just takes longer for different kids. Each kid is different. And for me, you know, I was a daycare teacher and I had to potty train kids. And so I kind of expected it to be easy, but it wasn't. And it took longer for my son.

So potty training should not be rushed. Let me repeat that. Here are these words. Potty training should not be rushed. It's about control.

My daughter turns two in March and we tried potty training and it is difficult. Like people put too much judgment on moms who don't have their kids potty trainers during age but it is super difficult and it's so much on our mental health and kids learn at their own pace right.

So my daughter is almost five and she is still not body broke. We are getting there slowly but surely. We've been trying since she was about two. And she's just not doing it. I've tried everything. All the books. I've read everything. I've tried everything. Now my son.

So all kids do definitely develop differently. So I would not compare your kid to anybody else at all. Everybody's situation is different and every kid potty training is different.

I actually started putting my son on the potty when he was six months old. Everybody thinks it's crazy and like laughs about it, but he poops on the toilet now. He doesn't pee. I haven't potty trained to pee on the toilet, but he still goes poop.

I haven't had to change like a poopy diaper in like months unless he has like a tiny little accident but definitely just don't compare yourself to anybody else's kids. Everybody's situation is different.

I mean, being a mom is definitely hard.

Girl, yes, you cannot force your kids to do something that they are not ready for. Take your time, keep working with her, and eventually she'll get it. I did the same with my four-year-old and everything's good now.