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So I am part of like a Facebook moms group page where they ask advice about like whatever they're dealing with And I wanted to see and bring this to stereo to see what you guys think Since I know there's a lot of moms and like people who are in relationships and stuff like that so basically what she was saying was that she lives in close proximity to her parents and her parents like to come and visit the kids and You know wants them to spend sometimes occasionally like the nights at their place and whatever You know, she says that it's not like a crazy month. It's like maybe once or twice a week if they have time and she's a stay-at-home mom as well and She works from home and her husband works pretty much like every day like obviously except the weekends or whatever and Then yeah, so she was just saying how sometimes it's nice to be able to get away from the kids for a couple hours So that you know, she can take care of things at home and her issue was that basically her partner had like a big issue with her bringing the kids to her parents house and she doesn't really understand why if this is like maybe she's thinking that um what does she say like it was just like her parents were being too much or if there's such a thing as having grandparents being overwhelming or overbearing but then she was also reiterating the fact that like he doesn't even her husband doesn't even Stay like with the kids that often and it's not like when they're together the kids are not with them It's mainly just like during the day for a couple hours and occasionally over night But yeah, so she was just kind of like seeing what people thought if he was validated in those feelings or wishes was he just kind of being like Inconsiderate of her and you know the hard work that she puts into the house every day and with the kids every day So yeah, what do you guys think? I will leave my opinion down below.
I feel like he like getting pressed over some shit that makes no sense to get pressed over like it's not like the grandparents are like forcibly taking the kids away and stopping them from spending time with them it's just a mom need to break sometimes. I don't know, he tweaking.
So I know it's a case by case like basis and every person's situation is different but like I did never had my parent grandparents growing up like my grandparents and I were not super close because they were in a different country and then my other side grandparents I think they had passed either right before I was born or just like shortly after so I never really formally met them so I'm like I would be glad that my parents would want to spend time in her build a relationship with my kids
She made it almost kind of seem like maybe he was like jealous or something of the fact that she got to you know Drop the kids off every once in a while with them. Obviously if it was every day, I don't think I would necessarily agree Because I mean they're your kids and like you should watch them if that was your agreed decision Otherwise, you know go to work and you know contribute financially But I don't think that's what this lady was saying She was saying that like maybe once or twice a week she would drop them off if her parents requested it. She would never ask for it is what she said.