You know what weeks. Everyone else is Mary image meeting what we experience in our external world like other people other people is something that's being married back to us so we really need to figure out who we are and we and what we want in life so many people can sit and they can tell you rattle off for hours but they don't want what they don't like but whenever you flip that around what do you want what do you like what are you for we don't have the courage or we don't even to say what it is or we don't even know what it is so I think that's it