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When do you guys start feeling some doubts or some uncertainty in a relationship? Is it there's three month marks, six months, one year, three years, five years, or are you one of the group that never feels any doubt?
Never. As soon as you start feeling doubtful, you either figure them out or you go on your separate ways and you end that relationship. You know, until you get married, everything should be great. the work starts when you get married and even then you shouldn't be having doubts.
Why do you think that work only starts when you get married but not, you know, when you're living together or you're on that path to marriage? which nothing should really change when you get married, right? It's a legal document.
Definitely when you slide to get to really know somebody I'm not gonna put a time on it because they're just things that come on at different times and different situation's but the doubt definitely stems from trusting a person absolutely and then they break that trust and not just once but over and over so it's like what are you left with down
I don't know I feel like because of my trust issues are like past relationship problems if a guy is just way too nice to fast I'm just like let you know he's buying me stuff he's taking me out like that's crazy like you know what if he's just being super nice just to get sex I don't know but then at the same time if he's like too nonchalant then I'm gonna be like oh are you even interested in me like y'all you guys are doing something but it's all because of my trust issues
I feel like for a lot of people, it's not really a time frame, but more so the feeling of doubt is when there's external factors. Like if you're seeing other people around you getting married or having kids or moving and you know, you're feeling that internal pressure and you look at the person and you think, okay, wait, can I like move forward or not? And if you're having those feelings, definitely communicate, but if you're not willing to communicate, then I think it's just better to go your separate ways because, you know, can't read your mind.