So I know if there is typical like struggling with love languages but does your partner have a love language that just absolutely drives you crazy like my husband his love language is 100% physical touch that is at the bottom of my list in fact if somehow I can make it not exist on my like rankings of love languages I probably would mine is acts of service so I feel bad every time my husband leg comes around and wants to snuggle or something because I'm just over here like can you maybe hug the dishes