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So if your mom and you're on TikTok I'm sure you've seen the video going around where the mom states that you know she's probably training her daughter at one because she doesn't wanna be "" lazy and have her daughter be in a potty training at three well my daughter is three and she is not fully potty trained I've been working on this since 18 months and she's just not ready yet and you know for a while I was always like you know super like guilty that I felt super guilty that she wasn't potty trained because she is three but the thing is all kids develop differently they all learn differently I work at potty training her every day like it is an every day thing that I'd work with with her so it's not that I'm lazy it is just she is not ready yet and so when she is ready she will go So I don't know I just I don't like all the mom show me that's going around right now and I think their mom just need to be reminded that it's OK to not be doing everything that we see another mom doing on social media
At first I was like, okay, I'm gonna have 202. Like I can start potty training just because also I feel like my mother-in-law embedded that in my head that like they can learn young. But if he's not giving me signs, then I'm not gonna rush it.
Yeah, definitely. That's exactly how it was for me. I had two under two and so I was always told like, you know, I need to get my daughter potty trained before I have my son. So I thought that I was going to be able to do it super quick and no, it's still a process.
So sometimes it just takes longer for different kids. Each kid is different. And for me, you know, I was a daycare teacher and I had to potty train kids. And so I kind of expected it to be easy, but it wasn't. And it took longer for my son.
It's about control and you cannot control what goes in them or what comes out of them. I did little to no potty training with my son when he was ready.
When he was ready, he came to me at about three and a quarter months and said, I want to wear short pants today. And I thought he meant shorts. And it turned out that he was wearing shorts.
So it turns out he met underwear and we put him in pull-ups for a couple of nights and they were not wet when he woke up and that was the end of it. No accidents, maybe one at one point, but nothing else.
I definitely agree with you I've always had the mindset of potty training shouldn't be rushed so thank you for sharing your experience too it makes me feel a lot better about my daughter not being potty trained because I always and like she'll get there when she's ready but then when I hear that she should be there
I just feel so bad and I feel like I need to push it more. But thank you again so much for sharing that and reminding me that it just doesn't need to be rushed and she'll do it when she's ready.
My daughter turns two in March and we tried potty training and it is difficult. Like people put too much judgment on moms who don't have their kids potty trainers during age but it is super difficult and it's so much on our mental health and kids learn at their own pace right.
I completely agree. I think that there's so much pressure on moms to do everything and we constantly feel like we need to be in like competition with other moms but like that's not the case at all.
We're all in this together and our kids all learn differently grow differently develop differently we can't compare one kid to another I mean a kid could be potty trained at one but another might not be potty trained till four like it just depends on them
So my daughter is almost five and she is still not body broke. We are getting there slowly but surely. We've been trying since she was about two. And she's just not doing it. I've tried everything. All the books. I've read everything. I've tried everything. Now my son.
My son just started showing interest at He Is Two. So we are in the process of doing his potty training and he is actually doing a little bit better than even my daughter. And them being in a competition now is actually helping her.
But it is an everyday thing. We do it every single day and I like I tell people I've tried my best. I've done all the things and she's just not ready. When she is ready she will be potty broke. Period. I'm not going to force her or rush her because that's just going to discourage it.
I'm so glad you said that. I have the same viewpoints as you do. Like, there's no reason to push it because she's just going to get discouraged. Like you said, my daughter is three and she's not even close to being potty trained. But like I work with it with her. But if she's not.
I'm not gonna get mad at her for not doing it because like you said when she's ready, she's gonna do it. And it's funny how you said that your son is two and he's ready for potty training. My son is also two, he's younger than my daughter and he is sh-
I need to be potty trained and might not my daughter has never showed interest so it's just funny how like every kid really is different like even your own kids they're all different
So all kids do definitely develop differently. So I would not compare your kid to anybody else at all. Everybody's situation is different and every kid potty training is different.
I actually started putting my son on the potty when he was six months old. Everybody thinks it's crazy and like laughs about it, but he poops on the toilet now. He doesn't pee. I haven't potty trained to pee on the toilet, but he still goes poop.
I haven't had to change like a poopy diaper in like months unless he has like a tiny little accident but definitely just don't compare yourself to anybody else's kids. Everybody's situation is different.
Girl, yes, you cannot force your kids to do something that they are not ready for. Take your time, keep working with her, and eventually she'll get it. I did the same with my four-year-old and everything's good now.