Нажимая "Хорошо", вы соглашаетесь на сохранение файлов cookie на вашем устройстве для улучшения навигации по сайту, анализа использования сайта и помощи в наших маркетинговых усилиях.
Okay guys, I'm gonna do a series in five parts about the five different love languages and the first one coming up today is physical touch and I do think that many people believe that physical touch is mostly about sex or public display of affection, pda, but there's actually so much more to it. It could be holding hands, just giving kisses to each other whenever you feel like you want to. It could also be like in the very small moments when, for example, if you cross the street and your partner just puts out a hand to grab you a little bit to make sure you don't run into traffic, that sort of stuff. So the physical touch could definitely be in the smaller moments as well as in the big moments and I think that's what makes it a a pretty cute love language in that sense.
Call so raven to sleep with nothing on right not like those but like no movie is all music nothing just listening to the rain talk to you know stuff like that
I love this as well. I think with it's super cozy sometimes to just put on a movie or listen to music but having those moments of just nothing else distracting like talking and stuff, I think they're very bonding
Personally I think love languages are just another label that we give ourselves I think you can appreciate every facet our relationship you don't have to be defined by what you love
This is an interesting standpoint on it and I do think that we definitely should try to appreciate everything about a relationship and not put it into boxes. However, I do think that love languages makes us understand a partner better.
I really like that you're doing this series. It's really dope. I like physical touch. It's definitely one of my higher up love languages and like you said it's nothing that means it doesn't I don't always mean sexual.
Yeah, like it doesn't always mean sexual. I know like for my husband and myself We always like to just touch each other just like holding a hand or like rubbing his head or or, you know, holding a finger. Like we're really...
Yeah, I see exactly what you mean with physical touch, just sometimes being those small gestures of just being near one another, touching one another in next in small ways and for that to provide to you.
Yeah, I feel like people are really quick to define physical touch as like sex or whatever and it really is not always that I think people need to get their mind out the gutter but yeah.
My love language, well one of them is a physical touch and yeah a lot of people think it's public display of affection or just sex and it's literally not that my girlfriend the first time that I was doing dishes and she came behind me and She gave me a hug. I melted.
So it's subtle things like that that just make you feel so special and so loved. They're like, when I'm sitting on the couch and she walks by, she'll kiss me on the head and like grab my head and hug my neck. Like it's so cute.
Thank you for sharing this, by the way. I think it's lovely to hear about how you and your partner share that love with each other through physical touch. It's, yeah, great to hear.
Yes, I second that for sure. I think that getting those hugs and kisses and cuddles or wherever it may be is definitely such a good way of expressing and receiving love.
But I also feel like each person will write their own reveling wedge in a way that they expressed their love so some people don't like to be touched on so yeah
Yeah, I know for sure, definitely not all people enjoy that and that's definitely something that should be taken into account especially if the partner that you're with has a different sort of love language and don't like that as much.
So it's interesting that you say that because my love language truly never was physical touch until I was in my most recent relationship and for me physical touch is something as simple as like rubbing my back if I say my back hurts or just
Like just being able to come home after a long day and lay next to your partner like even if I'm sleeping like we don't necessarily need to be cuddled but like laying back to back or just like a little intimate mom
That's very interesting as well, your standpoint on that, that it didn't used to be, but now it is and I think that's very interesting to hear as well and beautiful in a sense because I think that love languages as well can change depending on who you're with.