What are rules or not negotiables with your kids but you break all the time for example I'd tell my kids that they can't eat too much candy or chocolate but I on the other hand whenever I find a piece or something obviously I think about them and I'm like OK maybe I should save two pieces for them or whatever but I save myself a whole bunch and I'm like sneaky they're in to the bathroom or somewhere else and just eat it because I'm like I need some sweetness in my life sometimes