you can also make the argument that men were being like encouraged to be like promiscuous as well i think the first like product made to stop like you know the creation of a baby is condoms you can also like say that men were like the first to be encouraged to have sexuality, as much as possible it's just that the way woman needs to be helped with stopping like having babies and stuff is a little bit more complicated so i i just don't understand what he's trying to say.