I have always dreamt of living in the city but now that I have kids in two kids I feel like it would just be hard like there wouldn't be a lot of grass or like really nice areas to go to I don't know I've been to New York and it just looks horrible like the city just looks so dead and everyone is so mean all the time so I don't know that's my only thing but I would love to be close to like shopping areas and stuff like that if it were just like me and my boyfriend you know

That is true I mean you wouldn't want to be near like a hospital or something like that right arm but then again like I was thinking my dream house I would definitely want a family with me or at least like my parents my in-laws and I'm pretty sure they would come with us honestly they're so attached to our kids and then it wouldn't be so much better if you wanna be like completely alone you just have everyone on one piece of land let's say you only got about 5 acres it would be enough to have a couple houses

So that's my loophole for that as far as everything being far away I mean maybe you could on maybe you could only go I don't know a little plane or something and then head to the city that way I don't know assuming that if you have a lot of land in a huge house you have enough money for like a little plane or something right and then it would work out you could go spend the day in the city and then you would be fine and then come back home in your nice house

So I found a loophole for this issue because I thought of the same thing too so my dream house would actually have lake on a lot of land enough to build other like in In-laws house or something basically just like a mini house like my parents and then my in-laws could be also with us if they wanted to obviously and then it wouldn't be so much of an issue I guess it would be just a far away

It would be hard because everything would be an hour away, but we could make a day of it. Spend a day in the city, do everything that we gotta do, and then we'll go back home at the end. You know, I don't know. It's hard to give up a dream house, for sure.

OK no that would not be my dream as much as I love them I don't think I can have them that close specially if my parents are separated they get along but then my mom remarried and my stepdad which was part of my who is part of my life and has been since I was four they don't get along and they would obviously I want them close but it's all a dream right

See I like your thinking that's exactly what I was thinking away from everything and if something bad were to happen that I'd be far away and I'll be in peace you know when my family would be with me so I'd be good