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So I'm going to do a two-parter to this, but my first question is, if you've ever been cheated, what was your first thought process? Like what were you thinking? Did you ever think that you were the problem or that you just weren't good? Like, let me know. I'm obviously, you know, when I was dating, I definitely, I did get cheated on and that it sucks. For me, I was like, why? Like I literally did everything. And I feel like even when you do everything, people just don't take you for what you are. They're always trying to look for something better until they cannot. And so I think it took a little while for me to realize that, you know, you can't, you can't expect people to do the same shit for you or be as committed as you like you are for them and so it's I don't know for me it kind of helps me let that whole thing go just because it's like I don't know I don't want to hold any grudges or any anger towards them but I don't know that's just how I moved on thankfully so I want to know what was the thought process or how did you guys get through a breakup when someone cheated.
How did I handle figuring out when someone cheated on me? I... Ah, shit. I made them think for a little... I gave them the chance to be honest with me. So I made them think that I didn't know. And I just asked questions. Asked questions. And I'm like, I'm gonna ask you one more time. Takatakata. They're gonna say some stuff. I'm gonna ask you one more. Like, I'm telling you don't play me as a stupid bitch because I'm not that. And then here, what will they do? stupid bitch. Bye, sayonara.
Yeah, I feel like they definitely tried it. You were giving them the benefit of the doubt. And for them to still play you, like, come on now. At that point, it's like you're testing my intelligence. Don't do that. Don't do that. I don't like that at all. It's, I swear it's like a game and it's like no. If you, for me, if this is just me thinking personally, but if you are okay with cheating, then you're okay with losing me. That's just me. Like you said, it's time to get in the room.
Yeah, I don't understand why people have to try to play with someone's intelligence. Like, dog, if I'm asking you a thousand times, I think you should think, like, Ayo, this person knows, let me at least be honest. Like, I don't know. They're fucking stupid enough to cheat, so I guess they're dumb enough to try to be a condescending liar. But yes, sayonara motherfucker
OK I got pretty petty my ex fiancé cheated on me and I found out three weeks before we were supposed to elope and I called his mom he didn't like me at all and I called his mom and I was like hey just so you know I'm you don't have to worry about me anymore because your son just cheated on me with some girl so you got your wish he was not happy that I called his mother at all
Pettiness I love that Yeah, cuz that's a If I had both of my hands because you know how we have to hold down the record button I'd give you a round of a fucking pause because yes, how dare you try and fucking play me I'm for sure calling your mama like that. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And now what now what mm-hmm. Yep, you are now wrong
I truthfully don't think that's even that petty like I mean okay I guess it is petty but There's not wrong like I mean Why is he so mad that you took that you told his mom like because he wanted to be this perfect little angel to his mother like No, your mama gonna find out who you are because she needs to smack you across the head.
You're so funny when you talk about clapping if you were if you didn't have to hold down the record button I'm knocking on the wall. This does not sound like a clap, but I'm with you for sure I support Heather and exactly what now sir what now yeah
yes that's exactly what i thought too like so are you trying to protect this whole image from your mom like yeah no your mom raised a fucking asshole okay like let's be real you can't protect that image there but also like uh-uh it is too fucking early anyway sorry um but yeah like no get the the fuck outta here I'm glad she used that ticket to go fuck somebody else okay
okay so the next update that I'm waiting for is for us to be able to like slide the like record button up or something because I feel like damn my fucking thumb is tired. So hopefully they hear this.
Really though, I feel that and that would be actually pretty cool if they did that. I'd be so worried that my audios will disappear and sometimes my binger will slide and I have have to repeat the Honto thing.
so I remember when we had the like 15 second little like audio things um I just kept on mentioning like shoot I wish that this could be like longer or extended my bed for all the replies but I kept mentioning it in the audios and I don't know like if we keep on mentioning like hey I wish we can like slide it up so it can lock it in and like record or something there has to be a way there has to be away but please stereo listen please
I mean I didn't get to the core of my pettiness I immediately called American Airlines and a voucher of my flight to go see him and I use that flight like three months later to go now somebody else on his dime
When I tell you, like, I love that for you, honestly. Just because they shouldn't have done what they did. You know what I'm saying? And that's on them. That is all on them. I don't feel bad. I am happy for you. I'm glad that you're in a better, for one marriage, okay? Someone that actually appreciates you and understands you. That's what matters.
I took them back because I was stupid, but I don't know I used to give people like multiple tries body blah but now I'm leaving out the sign of the first red flag so I feel like I've definitely improved.
I don't think you were stupid. I mean, I feel like we all have those moments where you really do want things to work out and you You're not done for that. Trust me. There's so many people that think that and people can freaking manipulate pretty well and maybe they did have those intentions to try But you know at that point it just became a lesson you learned and like you said you've improved And I think that's what really matters. So yeah, good for you.
I'm sorry I got cheated on her phone and nothing was you know where but it was only one side thing though I got my leg back I cheated back but when I get my leg back I get worse as shit with his homeboy and then not only that I told him that his homeboy is bigger than his and then I cut it off with him so yeah
Absolutely savage, but truly I am not mad at you, shit. I feel like when they get a taste of their own medicine, it hurts obviously. But you know, if you love someone, you shouldn't be cheating on them. So yeah, shit, fuck that. And I really hope it was bigger because maybe he'll learn next time, not to do that shit.
So there's been a few times when I found out that I was getting cheated on by the time that sticks out to me the most is when I was pregnant with my youngest daughter so and to be honest with you she really gave me like a calm that I've never experienced I don't know how to explain it like I was angry on the inside but I didn't let it show on the outside and I did the same thing that one of the other people on here that I kind of like make him think that I didn't know and kind of tried to I
really fucked up that he cheated on you while you were pregnant. Um, man, I'm so sorry about that. But hopefully, well thank god your daughter, he said, brought over a calmness. So that's always good to hear. But hopefully, you know, you're either in a better situation or he's treating you better. know definitely sending you some positive vibes
Thank you, Queen. I appreciate that. Yeah, this happened like seven or eight years ago. So I am super over it. definitely learned a lot from it and thank you I appreciate it me and my daughter we super straight
Good, that's all I ever, you know, hoped for. Just because it's like, that's so, oh, but you know, hey, at least you're good now. And you know, better lights, you know, you and her are good. So that's what matters.
I know you're glad about that too because that means I would have found you Okay time to get my ass out of bed. I love you baby. I will see you shortly