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When talking about relationships, we tend to focus the conversation around relationships that are of a romantical nature. It makes sense. Usually your romantical partner is seen as your life partner, the one you want to spend your life with, etc. However, I feel like there's an aspect to relationships that we don't discuss as much, that is friendship. And I think that when everyone could agree upon the meaning of a romantical partner, I feel like the consensus around friendship is a bit more blurred. Some people value friendships extremely highly, whereas some people value them as something secondary. To me, a good friend is someone who will always be there, no matter what. No matter how much time has passed, I can always call them. No matter what's happening in my life, they will be there for me. They will show up. That's what a good friend is to me. However, I'm curious. What would you say constitutes a good friend for you? and how much would you say you're valuing your friendship in your life?
I definitely agree with this. I think the two-way street is an important thing in any relationship and it shouldn't ever be a one-way street or if it's not really gonna work out so totally agree with that
Okay, so when it comes to friendships, I feel like, you know, when you get into a relationship, I feel like a lot of people think that, oh my gosh, you're not gonna have time for your friends, whatever whatever.
And I actually beg to differ. I feel like for one, yes, there is a big importance with your relationship and And, you know, obviously, yes, that's that. But with your friends, you still do have to make time for them.
And I feel like, you know, a bad or toxic thing that I've seen happen is when some women or men get into relationships, they just forget their friends and, you know, their friends kind of feel neglected until, you know,
until that person breaks up with their partner and then it's just a mess which sucks but you know I feel like there just has to be a good balance in regards to juggling your friendships and your relationships and it just has to be reciprocated.
And communication is very, very, very key. You know, one person should not just be reaching out all the time. It definitely should be multiple, you know, other people should be reaching out. out but yeah sorry this is so long
I very much agree with this. I think friendships are always important and and it's even more important to try and keep them up when you're in a new relationship in order for your friends not to feel left out.
And I think communication is key as you said as well. It has to be reciprocal on both ends. And friendships are just super important and good friends will stay with us for our whole life. So it's very important to nurse them.