So I was watching an interview with Jay Shetty earlier today. I truly love his advice when it comes to dating. I think he's very smart with all that. And the way he views love very much resonates with me and the way I view love as well. And he was sort of talking about how you're more likely to find the one that's right for you by finding someone who you're willing to make it work with and vice versa, they are willing to make it work with you rather than going off to try and find someone who is perfect. Because if you go to look to find someone who's perfect, you're going to be looking for a long time, you're going to reject a lot of people. And finding the one is more about finding the one person that is willing to make it work with you and vice versa. And what he was getting at is that love is a choice and you choose to love the person that you love and you choose to try and make it work with them. And you choose to just be their partner, you choose to work on yourself, to get better for them and better for yourself. And they choose to be with you as well. So I think that the whole consensus of that, that love is a choice, is a very beautiful statements and yeah I thought I'd just wanted to share it because it did inspire me.

Of course, because you choose when you want to meet someone, when you want to be in love and yeah, it's a choice.

I don't believe in that ideology that you choose to love because love is something that appeals to you naturally what happens is that when you big can you choose a battle for you when you decide to settle down so when you start living with them you become habitual to that person and you you a kid Addicted to his self being around him and eating with him going out with him

So out of habit are you me a fall in love so basically it's not love love it's just you are staying with someone you eventually fall in some kind of affection with that person so that's how it works but the real love if you talk about you don't use that database and you're not really

Yeah, I definitely agree with the phrase that love is a choice. You have to choose to be there, choose to love the person, choose to be there regardless of whatever circumstances, heartache, and stuff that they put you through because love is definitely a challenge.

I love that you said that because a lot of people don't think that or don't realize that, but it really is. Love is indeed a choice and you know, you don't always choose who you necessarily are attracted to off the bat. I mean, I think maybe to some degree yes, but you know, chemistry is chemistry, but choosing to stick with someone after a fight, you know, after etc. That's a choice.

Willing to make it work with I really agree with us I don't I can't speak very well because I've been going to recent events for it so I think it's him it has me a little bit different I guess in this whole aspect of love and being a choice but thanks for thinking of us all through but it's also amazing and very willing to work out into the start and even having this nonnegotiable's from the start