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So I would love to pick your brains about what you think is like a good advice that you received from somebody about like dating or relationships or just love in general. I think for me one of the good advices that I really enjoyed was like when it's the right person for you there it will be very very hard to fuck it up. Like I always used to believe that like okay what if I fuck up now like what if I do this and like he's gonna leave or something like that but since I met my current partner I've realized that like we get through anything like even if I do the wrong thing we'll talk about it and get through it and if I do something that I find to be embarrassing like he won't find it that way because he really wants to be with me. So it's like, I think for me that was like good advice because it sort of brings the, it allows you or like encourages you to be more like yourself and not be scared of doing something wrong. Obviously there are boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. But I think for those smaller things that like you can just be authentically fully yourself and they will just be fine with it. And I think that's a very beautiful advice.
I love that that if it's the right one you can't fuck it up because I believe that it's super true because I did and we've been together ages and ages and we've been through some shit and we can't fuck it up we did every year we kind of excited we tell wow are we getting better like even going through some really hard things sometimes anyway I love that
Aww, that's so good to hear that you were able to find someone and be with someone that doesn't make you feel embarrassed for something that you do and just knows how to reassure you and makes you feel loved and still wants to be by your side. I think that's very important in a relationship. I can say my girlfriend's like that too. She'll be embarrassed about something and I'm like, hey like That's not gonna make me not want to be with you, you know what I mean? Like it's not that big of a deal. like is not a d
I'm not sure where my audio cut off, but it's definitely not a deal at all. Not a big deal, not a deal at all. But a piece of advice for dating or love, I would say learning to self-regulate, but also learning about co-regulating So that if one person is at a balance the other one can kind of be like the balancing factor per se
I think the best kind of like dating advice is just to not force anything that's you know not there. I think oftentimes people try to force relationships when clearly the other person is not trying to get it or be in a relationship, you know. I think that's the best thing and once you know or see the signs that they're not interested, it's kind of easier to move on.