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Okay, so for my people that are in relationships dating or that just want to chime in Do you guys feel like it is okay for your partner to? Have like a friendship or even be best friends with someone who they used to date or have sex with I think for me it depends I would definitely have to observe the relationship if I feel like there's still something going on or still some feelings there then no, I don't think that's acceptable or okay, but if I feel like it's legit, like y'all just, it didn't work out and you guys see that you're better office friends, then I wouldn't, I wouldn't be mad or upset about that. But what do you guys think? Let me know.
This is not my type of thing. I mean I do respect them and cherish them but that doesn't mean that we have to be like BFFs and still be in touch with each other like it's definitely not my thing.
And they do have tried to be that kind of person that's still in my life and that it's just not for me Like why do I have to spend so much time and energy energy, still managing your relationship.
I think it's okay. As long as there's that level of trust there. Like, I mean you either trust somebody or you don't and your guts gonna tell you if you trust them or you don't. So, yeah, but I think it's okay when there's trust.
Yeah, I definitely, I get that for sure. There definitely has to be a trust level. And you, like you said, you can tell if that person has good intentions or no good intentions, you know.
Let me start by saying I've definitely done it before and I think it's just a way to stay single forever because they're never going to want you to be in another relationship, at least in my experience. so I don't think it's a good idea.
Yeah, no, I completely hear you. I can see a scenario playing out like that. Do you feel like it was that person specifically or you know because sometimes people have malice intent?
To be honest in my opinion I'm not really comfortable with that because yeah once I finish for each other and y'all had sex and all that and who knows that could re-Spark while y'all be in France like oh no in my opinion I'm against it
I definitely agree with you, you know, things definitely could be rekindled, but I think it boils down to the trust that you and that person did have or have. know people could have bad intentions but who knows
Right, because it's like, you guys literally have that sexual chemistry. So, why would it be okay for y'all to be friends? Like, you know, I get you. I get you.
Like out of all the people that you know, out of all the people that you interact with on a day to day That's who you want to stay a best friend with really that just seems like there's some attachment issues there and And that shit needs to be cut off.
It's so funny. I don't know why I automatically thought of 90-day fiance where one of the girls is best friends with her ex husband and the guy the fiance is like bro why are you cool with him like that's your ex and she
And she, granted, they were married for 10 years, but you know, they were still really cool. They were able to set aside their like sexual attraction, all that stuff together. but my thing is they were together for 10 years. Like that's kind of crazy.
I basically said all that just because it's like yeah maybe there are some people that have some some attachment issues, but you know, yeah, it's hard. That's a hard question. Ugh, it's hard.