I feel like in life we have all dealt with somebody who we felt like wasn't giving us 100% of the energy we gave them and I want to ask you in that situation What do you do if a friend isn't being there for you? because I'm not gonna lie I do hold grudges and If someone is not reciprocating the energy that I was giving them and Investing time and energy into the friendship. It makes me question like okay, well do you even want this friendship? Because where are you being flaky? Like, where are you lying? Why are you doing whatever that's being so shady, you know? So in the case that happens, I just slowly start drifting away from them. And you know, I'm a confrontational person, don't get me wrong, but I feel like some things are better left unsaid. And if there was like a confrontation or a discussion being brought up, I have no problem participating, but I just don't want to actively fight for something if they're not fighting for it too. Does that make sense, but yeah, I want to hear your take.

It's already a bad sign when you start having those thoughts that maybe they're not reciprocating the energy that you're giving back to them. What you can do is like sit down and really think about your entire friendship up into this point. Think about how many moments were you there for them and versus how many moments were they there for you and if you feel it's really unbalanced and unfair you can just sit down and have an honest discussion with them and be like hey are you interested in being friends or not because I'm not getting the same energy back that I'm given to you.

It really depends on how long we've been friends if we've been friends for a short time. I just move on But I did have my closest friend at one point doing that when he met a girl and I sat down with him and said here's your last chance and we Reprimanded things, but I think it's all about how long have you known that person if they were good and all of a sudden they fuck up, all relationships fuck up. But if they never gave you the energy, you're better to move on.

I think my saying is if it looks like a duck, it crocks like a duck, it probably is a duck. So I'll just lay off for a bit and then see if they seek me out.

Yes, it's great to have kind of a mutual friendship love instead of one person just putting all the energy into it So I think it's really good to assess all friendships to find out if you are over doing it or if That person's an inappropriate person like a vampire or something It's good to just do an inventory on everything and see how you feel so you can take appropriate action in your friendships. So this is an awesome.

So for me personally I would say that that is not a friend usually when I have to deal with people like that I just block like no explanation needed or anything I'm just because like they don't deserve my time or my energy if they want to act that way you know what I mean I feel like I've come along way

We talk, um, I don't absolutely leave them cause that's fucked up, but I would talk to them, I'd be like, hey is there anything wrong with today? And if they're just blocking me out, then I would just leave them alone. And if they shit on me for not talking to them even more? Fuck you dude, you blots me out, so fuck you.

I agree with what you're saying but like at the same time you know different personality different people we're all different in our own ways you got real people you got fake people it doesn't matter if it depends on your decision if you think they're not right for you then drop them if not keep them

Oh no I just diss them like this one girl A little bugger really car L in I can't fight with her it was very sad to see you so she's like I wanna fight you and like I couldn't process what I was thinking and I just went for a farm punching her in a trip to Nashville for John her she was on the ground we're both on the grass on top her paws

Because the reason why I did that is because like OK I'm not gonna say it but it is condition I said I'm wrong but I like this problem I have and I can't get rid of it and then we're like doing something I was like this game she's like you can't do it because you have this and like that it really got me mad I got my nerves that is light And once on my put my head on her she said good and as I was this time

Play when I was talking I was going off on her and then I went because I was playing with my friends and my friends with us as my head and I lean back and I touch her and she like you and she's cool little bit and I'm like a lie to you do you and all that and I'm like girl I didn't mean to type she was so you don't gotta do all of that And then I was going off of her and then I went to my friends I was talking because we're right by the center and I'm like OK